Tag Archives: society

Of course you matter!

Posted on 16 July, 2016 by paulineferguson

So… hands up if you’ve ever met this parent: “Of course you matter, Childname. You are important, how you feel is important, and your dreams are important. Now, dry your eyes and smile, because the world loves a smiling person, … Continue reading →

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How do you talk to your mother?

Posted on 20 April, 2016 by paulineferguson

Watching a promo ad on TV last night and one of the stars says “I would never talk to my mother like that.” It got me thinking – the implication here is that we’re supposed to respect and venerate our … Continue reading →

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“I know we can rely on you”

Posted on 30 April, 2015 by paulineferguson

Put your hand up if you’ve ever been told “I know we can rely on you”, or something similar, especially at work. That’s good, isn’t it? You’re reliable. Trustworthy. The boss knows they can rely on you. You’re an integral … Continue reading →

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Ignoring the question

Posted on 6 November, 2014 by paulineferguson

Sometimes, it might be okay to ignore a question. Say for example it’s your annual family get-together and yet again some relative you see maybe once a year asks you when you’re going to get married / have a child … Continue reading →

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Long Hours to Success

Posted on 28 October, 2014 by paulineferguson

I just read this interesting post by Rosa Brooks, called “Recline, don’t Lean In“. The author notes how there’s an expectation in today’s society for everyone to do more and more: to be ubiquitous or always there. By always there, … Continue reading →

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Correcting my walk

Posted on 23 October, 2014 by paulineferguson

I’m learning acting at the moment, and one of our classes involves watching how people walk, and being aware of how we walk, sit, stand etc. The overt lesson we’re learning is that we need to be aware of our … Continue reading →

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